Throughout this massage we will encourage you to let yourself go… to BE. Each session is unique because you are unique. Some people will laugh, others will cry or moan. Pleasure will express itself very easily for some, and will be imperceptible for others. Our history, joys and pains make up what we are at a very specific point in time. Some bodies locked up too much can sometimes react in a very surprising way when the shell melts away. Whatever happens, JUST LET GO! Give yourself the right to be, whoever you are! Be aware that the quality of your experience is to a great extent dependent on your capacity to let go and trust us. We hope that these two ingredients combined will allow you to live out a magnificent experience!
Objectives and benefits
The objectives and benefits of this technique are numerous and, dare I say it, unlimited. It would be difficult and highly restrictive to list them. One thing is certain and fundamental, and that is that each individual comes to look for what he or she needs at a given specific moment in their existence. It is up to you to define what your objectives are.
Far from being complex and esoteric, it is a simple, gradual process, accessible to all people who wish to find an easy and conscious way to bring the mind to sex, and to honour sexual union as a bridge between body and soul.
It gives a new dimension to the experience of orgasm: here genital orgasm is not a goal in itself… it is only the start of a path which, explored and developed, leads to ecstasy, a state of divine awareness that unifies us with All. It is also the path towards a “sacred sexuality” helping the body to rid itself of its shell, the heart to be trusting and open, and the mind to develop aptitudes, such as visualisation, imagination and meditation. Once this integration has taken place, you are ready for a new sensual and sexual experience, qualitatively richer, in which physical pleasure becomes the heart’s delight and the mind’s ecstasy.
Fundamentally different from traditional massage techniques, here we will consider you in your entirety: body, soul and mind. All your energies will be stimulated, including your sexual energies known as Kundalini. Kundalini is an intense energy, coiled like a snake at the sacred bone. This divine sexual energy, once awakened, takes the subject to the highest level of self-awareness. The sessions take place in full nudity both for the receiver and the giver. You bare yourself in both the literal and figurative sense… masks are taken away! Each session is subject to a prior briefing to determine your motivations, objectives and expectations.
Often from our tender years the sexual organs have been subject to vigorous condemnations. The genital area, which has thus become a stock of negative impressions, considerably reduces our aptitude to receive and welcome sexual pleasure. We will use the technique in the present case to provide assistance to women in getting over sexual obstacles or traumas. For some, this will prove an excellent tool in taking back possession of their body, their sensations and their femininity. It is especially indicated in cases of anorgasmy and dyspareunia, but also if there is a lack of pleasure or desire.
During the session, the practitioner may invite you to put your feelings and emotions into words in response to the various caresses and stimulations.
A code meaning “STOP” is established in advance by the giver and the receiver in the event that you should find yourself in a situation of displeasure or discomfort.
Prerequisites
Yoni (pronounced YO-NI) means vagina in Sanskrit, generally translated as “sacred space” or “sacred temple”. In tantra, the yoni is seen from a perspective of love, respect and sacredness.
We will use the technique in the present case to provide assistance to men in getting over sexual obstacles or traumas. For some, this will prove an excellent tool in taking back possession of their body and sensations. It is especially indicated in cases of anorgasmy, premature ejaculation and impotence, but also if there is a lack of pleasure or desire.
During the session, the practitioner may invite you to put your feelings and emotions into words in response to the various caresses and stimulations.
A code meaning “STOP” is established in advance by the giver and the receiver in the event that you should find yourself in a situation of displeasure or discomfort.
Prerequisites
To access this session, it is indispensable to have been initiated to tantric massage in our centre and to be a regular guest who abides by our philosophy on all points.
The Sanskrit word meaning the male sexual organ is Lingam. It is generally translated as “Rod of Light”. In Tantra or sacred sexuality, the Lingam is seen and honoured with respect, as a catalyst of creative energies and pleasures.
You will be massaged by a masseuse and a masseur, or by two masseuses depending on your preference and sexual orientation.
At the end of the massage, you can spend some intimate time with your partner if you wish. You can benefit from this time to share and exchange views on what you have just experienced. We will leave you alone in this situation and will join you again later to discuss your views.
This session can be playful, educational or therapeutic, as you wish. You can also ask to be blindfolded if you wish to enjoy it without seeing.
This session is perfect for couples seeking personal or sexual enrichment and development as well as for couples who are experiencing intimacy difficulties in their relationship. In the case of the latter, we would highly recommend a session with Marie and Thierry.
Set aside two hours of your time.
All too often our guests (male and female) are fixated with purely aesthetical criteria when they make appointments: "Oh no, not with that person, he/she's too this or not enough that" and I come across plenty of naïve and immature people…
Tantra is totally removed from considerations of this kind! It doesn't matter who takes care of you: male or female, thin or fat, blonde or brunette, Belgian or from elsewhere, young or more mature, etc., etc. What is important is what this person wants to offer you and share with you: his or her skills and human values, the quality of the massage, the love, tenderness and respect you are shown, no matter who carries out the massage.
This new session aims to submerge you completely in our philosophy.
Unlike with a 'classic' tantric massage session, we will not be allowing you to choose the person performing the massage. We will also blindfold you throughout the massage. To retain the magic of the moment shared and experienced, you won't know who has massaged you and you will never know. Your powers of hearing, smell and touch will be put to the test. We will awaken your emotions, your sensations and your perceptiveness. You will be listening to yourself completely… and in depth. And listening to the other person also, such as they are and for what they are. You will notice a series of small things which you probably didn't even know exist…
So - to tantra or not to tantra?
Aware of the difficulties that certain people may have in suddenly experiencing a tantric massage session as described in the section concerned, we have decided to offer you initiation sessions adapted to your level of development and to your limits.
Some people may perhaps prefer to keep their underwear on or not to be fully massaged in the first session. Others may not be able to tolerate the body-to-body massage or being embraced. The establishment of an atmosphere of trust and the installation of a gradual and development-based process will then prove necessary.
These initiation sessions of 60, 90 and 120 minutes will systematically form the object of a prior briefing to determine all these factors. You will progress at your own pace!
Tantrism is an initiatory journey… Sometimes you have to take your time. It was that way for me and Marie.
We thus understand that it may well be the case for you too.
Our desire is to support you as well as possible on this path, and not to make you suffer in any way.
The ritual of purification consisting in taking a hot shower, washing yourself carefully and putting on perfume will contribute to preparing you physically, psychologically and spiritually for your experience.
Going to the toilet before beginning the massage will avoid you having to needlessly interrupt the session… We also obtain better results with an empty bladder and intestines.
